About Us

Overview

Welcome to the Still Center!  Welcome to Your Still Center!

We are very passionate and slightly obsessed with helping people get very clear about what they truly desire and then get what they want.

This comes from the fact that most people don’t know what they want.  And for those few that do, they don’t know how to get what they want.

An important part of this journey involves getting clear about what gets in your way (spoiler alert – it’s you and your mindset) – and how to get through these perceived obstacles and to your dream or goal.

We will help you break through the clutter, distractions and busy-ness – and find your Still Center – so you can start living your dream now.

We will help you close the gap between who you’re being now and who you’re capable of being.

We meet you where you’re at and help make your dream a reality through our transformational coaching programs and retreats.

My Dream

I’ve always thought it would be amazing and rewarding to create a place and space where people can get what they need to live a life they love.

I’m going to create a sand box, a playground, a magical and awe-inspiring place in nature where people can open their hearts and imaginations – and realize that anything is possible.

I see myself and my team leveraging our expertise and passion in helping people create a meaningful and sustainable difference in people’s lives by clarifying and living their dream now.

Below is my vision of the Still Center that I wrote over 20 years ago:

Things in my life are evolving and flowing now more than ever before.

It’s because I’m letting them. It’s because I now realize when I’m getting in my own way and I get out of my own way. This is simple but not always easy. However, this is about progress not perfection for me.

I’m really listening to myself now. I’m listening to my mind, my body and my soul. I’m working on constantly and lovingly connecting my mind, body and soul – and trusting myself.

I’m on an amazing spiritual journey – to find my truth, my purpose, my gift, my longing, my voice, my light – to create a still center in my being, to give from the core of my being, to live life “on purpose”, and to make a difference in the world.

Creativity is a beautiful way for me (as well as others) to connect to our still centers – to unfold our souls and to find our treasures (our life’s purpose, our soul purpose).  As Oriah Mountain Dreamer said,

“Creative work, because it cannot be separated from our spirituality, inevitably connects us to that which is larger than us, and experiencing the sacred center of life [the still center of our being] can create a shift in perspective, can bring new insights and understandings that demand something of us.”

I feel like I’m really starting to nurture the little boy in me, to be curious and open, to be gentle with me, to take care of me, to be a responsible man, to love me, and to give myself the space and freedom to just be – and to give others the space and freedom to just be.

By not trying to figure out exactly how things will unfold. By not creating the perfect plan in my mind. Because things will unfold exactly as they do, which will be perfect for me. Perfect in a real or figurative sense, not in an ideal or literal sense – and I know now it’s not about perfection. It is what it is. I’m learning that it’s not about changing what is, it’s about being with what is.

I’m creating openings and breakthroughs in my life. I’m continuing to walk through these doors (uncovering and overcoming my fears), without knowing what’s on the other side, without knowing how I will be affected, without knowing how my life will change. I know now that my treasure, my gift, my truth and my purpose is to help others create their still center to ultimately find their treasure, their gift, their truth and their purpose.

  • To help others find their truth and speak their truth.
  • To help others find their light and embrace their light, and create a lightness of being.
  • To help others make a differ- ence in the world, starting with themselves.
  • Peace starts here, with each of us, in our still center.

I’m going to help others see what there is for them to see, feel what there is for them to feel, and hear what there is for them to hear – in stillness from their still center. To help them realize their gift and to help them realize that they are a gift to the world. My purpose is to help others access their gift so they can share it with the world. Their gift. Their treasure. Their love.

My purpose is to help others celebrate their love and to share their love.  To bare their soul and to speak their truth. To break through their fears and be open to the gifts that each new beginning offers.

  • To make a difference by taking care of themselves, by feeding their mind, body and soul – by connecting their mind, body and soul.
  • To make a difference knowing that you can’t give away what you don’t have.
  • To make a difference knowing that love and hate cannot co-exist – and to choose love as often as you can.
  • To make a difference knowing that in every interaction you have, you’re either pushing someone away from you or you’re pulling them closer to you – and to choose connection as often as you can.
  • To make a difference knowing that with every action you take, you’re either moving away from your purpose or you’re moving towards your purpose – and to choose “on purpose” as often as you can.
  • Be love. Give love. Create love. Generate love. Receive love. Embrace love. Live love. Love with all of you and love from your truth. Love from your still center.

I see all of this beauty happening – evolving, flowing and growing – at an amazing place and space in nature, on the water and in the woods in Muskoka, Ontario. I see me being part of a team committed to helping others find and speak their truth. I see me and the team being still and embracing our still centers. I see others being still and embracing their still centers.

I see all of this happening at a place called the Still Center.

 

Below is my vision of the Still Center that woodburned on a large piece of driftwood from Lake Michigan over 20 years ago:

Living My Dream
Now

With all of my introspection, personal awareness and personal development, I realized that I made my dream of owning 100 acres in Muskoka, Ontario including designing a world-class retreat center – the Still Center – SO BIG that it seemed has seemed unachievable. 

The idea alone seemed like an achievement but after time it felt empty.  It was so big that it felt safer not going after it.  It was comfortably uncomfortable – but there was something missing.  It was the part about actually transforming this idea and my passion into reality.

I realized last year that I can live my dream now.  I can make even more of a difference now.  I can be of even more service now.  I can create even more joy now

I’ve since taken my dream off the shelf, dusted it off, and started creating Still Center Retreats and Coaching Programs – in other words, I’ve started living my dream now.

I’m co-creating Unstoppable Joy and Outrageous Abundance with my retreat guests and my coaching clients.  I’m helping them to live their dream now and, at the same time, they’re helping me to live my dream now.

It feels so natural as things are flowing in my life in a way that feels like magic and miracles.  I’ve removed the word “unbelievable” from my vocabulary as I truly believe that anything is possible and therefore everything is believable.

I believe in my dream.  I believe in your dream.  I believe we can co-create something very special together.

Welcome to the Still Center.  Welcome to Your Still Center.

My Purpose

I’ve realized that finding or creating your purpose can feel heavy as many of us feel that we have a lot at stake.  This heaviness can also apply to clarifying what you truly want – your dream, your goals, your desires.

What if your purpose in life is to simply love your life.  There’s no downside to this and imagine how much more you’ll love you and how much more you’ll inspire others.  You will leave a wake of pure joy wherever you go.

I’ve also realized that it’s not about the destination – it’s about the journey – so it’s important to choose something that lights you up now and then go for it.  The primary purpose of having a goal or dream or desire is to learn and grow and evolve.  It’s usually about how we think we’ll feel after we’ve achieved that goal – and not about the goal itself.

Chances are that you’re going to change your goal or dream as you move toward it – and that’s totally fine.  It’s possible to make this process – and your life – easy, joyful and fun.

In the spirit of this, I’ve known for a while that my purpose is simply to create more joy in the world.  I’ve since evolved my purpose in a way that resonates deeply to me, as follows:

 

“To create Unstoppable Joy in the world by in-STILL-ing a deeper sense of purpose, passion and playfulness in people.”

 

This is who I am and what I’m all about.  You can find me at the intersection of the Still Center and Unstoppable Joy.  Come join me.

Still Center – Our Essential Truth

I am absolutely ecstatic about my new company – the underlying and overarching purpose behind it, what we stand for, and how we’re making a significant difference. 

Below is our Essential Truth which represents our promises to each other, our guests, our clients, our strategic partners and our communities.  And it’s no coincidence that my personal Purpose is the same as my business Purpose.

 Core Purpose – Why we exist.

To create Unstoppable Joy in the world by in-STILL-ing a deeper sense of purpose, passion and playfulness in people.

 

VisionWhere we are going, and how we will know we’re there.

To be recognized as inspiring people to live their dreams and love their lives – now.

MissionWhat we do every day to get there.

We support, celebrate and uplift you on your journey. 

ValuesWhat we believe in; our principles.

We meet you where you’re at.

We empower the extraordinary.

We inspire possibilities and opportunities.

We facilitate inspired insights and inspired actions.

We create, enhance and celebrate amazing experiences.

We see you as someone who has already achieved your dream.

 

PositionHow we make a difference; how we are different.

We inspire people to live their dreams and love their lives – now.

Positioning StatementHow we express our difference. 

Live Your Dream Now

 

CharacterHow we act; our voice.

Outrageously fun

Wildly creative

Deeply passionate

Obsessively optimistic

Positively focused